Another tiring day...

Another typical day today: Did some cold calls, spoke to both the nice and the mean people on the other end of the phone, sent out some more quotations that hopefully will actualize into Purchase Orders.. and other administrative stuff for the maid etc..

I was supposed to meet up with Capitaland today with C and H, but i just feel so tired that i didn't go in the end.  After all, the meeting will be all about design amendments, which i am clueless about, so no point going anyway.

Tomorrow is Bria's check up, can't wait to see my baby again on the ultrasound!! = )

A Leisurely Day

9:23 PM by Adeline Woo 1 comments
K drove me to Botanic Gardens yesterday morning to join a group of mothers from the New Mothers Support Group for their monthly walk.

By the time i reached the meeting point at the Visitor's center, there was no one there, so i ended up taking a stroll by myself.  I called the organizer along the way, and then met the group 20 mins later at the cafe near the main entrance..

This was the second time i attended the groups' activities, the first being a coffee chat at Spruce cafe in Tanglin.. It was really nice seeing so many babies of different shapes and sizes, mostly (99.9%) caucasian babies, and so adorable!!  I was smiling like an idiot throughout just looking at how cute the babies were..  = )

Anyway, i don't think i will go and attend their activities again.  Cause i still feel awkward being the only one (or minority) who is Asian, still pregnant and without a baby to fuss about.  For the past two times, i always seem to be the odd one out, not being able to make much conversation with the mummies as they fuss around their babies.  Plus, everyone seem to know everyone else, and that made it even more awkward for me.

After my little walk at the gardens, i headed to Borders and sat there for more than an hour finishing up a Jodi Picoult book i had borrowed from the library but was still lying around at home cause i didn't have time to read it.  I still have 3 more library books to finish up before end of this month..  Arghh...

In the afternoon, i went to Tampines and met up with Mokky for a drink.. He had broken up with his girlfriend so I kind of asked him out for a chat.. Just 2 weeks ago at a wedding, he had just told me that he will be marrying this girlfriend of his.  They even bought a flat together.. Sigh.. 

As we chatted over drinks, Mokky asked me how K and I did it.. Frankly, for the past 9 years, i still think K does all the work to maintain our relationship, I'm more like the one to just give up and take him for granted.  I am such a lucky bitch! = )

Mean Mama

8:55 PM by Adeline Woo 0 comments
Being pregnant, tired and extremely lethargic seems to be making me a meaner person..

2 weeks ago, my Philips hair straightener went bogus again.  When i switch it on, it switches off automatically within 2 seconds.  I got so pissed that i wrote a complaint letter and emailed it to a few email addresses i found on the Philips website. Ever since i bought this hair straightener, I have sent it at least 3 times to their service center in Toa Payoh.  The last time being in August / September this year.  And they always give me a new piece as replacement.  It's only been 2 months since i got the new replacement, and now this.  And everytime i have to go without the straightener for a few days or sometimes even weeks while waiting for Philips to get me a replacement.  As if i don't already look ugly enough, i had to bear with messy hair.  

Anyway, in my email, I kind of "exploded", claiming that their product is extremely disappointing, that i am NOT going to go down to their Toa Payoh service center anymore because I am pregnant and tired, that they have caused me a lot of inconvenience, and i even demanded that they give me a different model and deliver it right to my door step.  Few days later, i got a call from Philips.  The result?  They came to my house to collect the faulty set, went back to test it, said there was nothing wrong, and delivered the same set back to my house few days later.  So far, it's been working fine.  But if it fails on me again, i am going to give them hell. = )

Also, I haven't been exactly that nice to my suppliers / vendors recently.  The way i speak to them i guess.. cause some of them really make me lose my patience.  I asked for a quotation for some carton boxes yesterday via email, with an attachment that already specified all the dimensions.  Then this sales guy can still call me and ask me questions about things i already stated in my email attachment.  So i got impatient and rather sacarstic with him.   

Yesterday afternoon, while i was strolling along the street in front of Isetan Scotts, i was approached by this young girl asking for donations for people who didn't have money to buy food.  She was representing this orgnization that gave away free food for these poor people, most of them elderly folks.  So mean old me started asking her a series of questions that eventually left her dumb founded. 

First, i asked her where these old folks live.  She told me they lived in small HDB flats.  So i asked her how come they can afford to have a place to stay but cannot afford to eat.  Then she told me maybe their children is paying for the HDB flats.  So i commented that it's rather strange that their children would pay for their parents' lodging but not feed them.   

Secondly, i asked her where these old folks come from, and whether the organization screens them before giving them free food.  She said no, they just provide free food to whoever comes and queue at the center.  So i asked her how then is the center supposed to know if these people are REALLY poor, or just pretending to be poor?  She kept emphasizing throughout our conversation that these people are just eldery people, that they are old folks, as if old people are the most pathetic and miserable people in the world.

So i commented that there are a lot of old people around who are much richer than you think.  I then smiled at her, donated $2, and told her that I was just giving her something to think about before she asked people for donations.  When i told K about it, he said i was just being mean to the girl.. To me, i feel that people should know and understand the cause they are working for rather than just doing it blindly.

Well, maybe I am becoming a mean mama, that's why these days, i just don't feel like going out anymore.  I guess the less i go out, the lower the chances that i will meet someone who annoys me and causes me to be mean to them.. = )

Bria's Baby Cot

Bria's baby cot came today.. At last, the baby's room is looking more like a baby's room now! = )




I'm glad everything is finally settling into place.. we got a maid, the cot is here.. So now it's just the balance baby shopping, and the damn car.  We had a young couple view our MX5 yesterday night.. they seemed nice, but not sure if they will be keen on buying over our car cause they didn't even bother to test drive.. sigh.. Then again, K and I bought the MX5 without test driving also.. haha..

I want to go swimming!

7:11 PM by Adeline Woo 0 comments
I have been yearning to go to the swimming pool since months ago.. Until now, still no pool.. The last time i went to a pool was at the aqua gym at The Sail.

If nobody wants to go with me, i will go myself!!

Bria is 32 Weeks!

Bria is now 32 weeks.. and growing.. Everyone says i look very small for a mom with a 32 weeks baby inside me.. At first, that got me worried, until Dr Lim told me Bria is growing at a healthy size.  It's true that from the back, i don't look like i am pregnant at all.  There's a good and bad side of it i guess.  Bad side being that i get irritated people over taking me from behind when i walk on the streets.  Irritated because they don't know i am pregnant and probably thinks i am just walking really slowly to hog the streets and cause human jams.. haha.. = )

Every passing day brings with it increased anticipation, as well as anxiety for me.  I've been trying to tidy up the house and completing my baby shopping these few weeks.. Both are more or less 80-90% done.  Just need to wait for the baby cot to come next week.  And for the maid to arrive so i can finish up packing my house.  I actually went crazy several times trying to prepare the house for both the baby and the maid.  Till now, K and I are still trying to decide on a maid to bring home with us.  I need someone to start end November.  The new ones are all still in their home countries and their passports would take a long time to prepare. And the experienced ones are already in Singapore, so they need to start ASAP.  So we are kinda stuck now.

Plus, I am growing more and more weary and tired these days.. Even a 1 hour dinner outside makes me very tired.  I have also been experiencing this stitch-like pain in the lower right of my tummy for the past few days, and it makes walking and getting up from a sitting position really painful.  Mom and Sis commented that Bria will most probably be born early, cause I look really tired for someone who is 32 weeks pregnant, plus the fact that my feet have swelled for the second time.  Mom says labor will start soon after my feet swells for the 3rd time.. Interesting.. = )

Sigh.. i feel as if i am already in confinement. Life is so monotonous at home, but yet i am too tired to go out.  I've 4 story books to complete, but yet i don't have time.  Time just seems to fly by and nothing much gets achieved.  And yet so much is happening.  The baby is coming, the maid is coming,  plus we're getting a car, and moving house.. K and I are still trying to decide which car to buy. We have also been viewing plenty of properties recently with his parents.  Crazy as it may sound, but I'm actually quite excited at the prospect of moving in with my in-laws.. = )

This weekend i will be staying over at Dad's place for one night.  The maid has been sent back, and Mom's going for a weekend Batam trip, so Sis and I are taking turns to look after Dad.  I just hope everything will be okay, cause we are both kinda "handicapped" now, so the two of us aren't really the best combination to take care of each other! = )

The Beginning of Sleepless Nights

I haven't been sleeping well for the past few days.. I can't sleep on my back, which is the most comfortable position for me, cause i will wake up with a horrible back ache.  But i can't sleep on my left side, or my right side either, cause it is very uncomfortable, and i always end up rolling back on my back.

So i end up awaking several times throughout the night, and feeling really tired in the morning when i do wake up.  Yesterday, i woke up with such a bad backache that i couldn't walk, so i just stood there in my room for a few minutes before i dragged myself to the bathroom... Sigh.. Plus, i dropped the air con remote control in the middle of the night into the little space behind my bedframe, and it got stuck there.  So I ended up really cold at night cause i couldn't turn off the air con, cause i didn't want to wake up and dig up the remote control.

Then at night, when i sit on my sofa while watching TV, i have difficulty getting up from the sofa after that.  I had to pull on my own pants to lift myself up.. It's so irritating that i don't feel like watching TV any more on my sofa.  haha..

Arghhh.. I cannot sit, and I cannot sleep.. I want my hubby!!